Love
Mike Broadhurst
We are back in the USA.
After months of praying, pondering and planning we have returned to our homeland and Yvonne and I would like to attempt to tell you what it’s like to be back after three-and-half years in Africa.
Foremost, the transition of returning is as every bit as challenging as it was in leaving.
Our journey actually started 18 years ago when our pastor challenged us with this question, “Who is your god?”
You see, Yvonne and I had driven Porsches and BMWs; lived in big houses; travelled to idyllic islands; and lived the proverbial American dream. Yet we both knew and felt something was missing.
On the way home from church that day we both recognized and acknowledged that there had to be something more. We decided together that day that we would do more than just go to church on Sundays. We committed our lives to seeking Jesus Christ.
To be honest, the immediate consequences were not great. Family members were skeptical, maybe even a little bit scared. Regrettably, we lost friends. I slowly walked away from golf - the very thing that brought me my greatest satisfaction. It was my god.
In June of 2015 we entered a month-long training program intended to prepare us for the cultural shock of living in countries adrift in abject poverty. In Madagascar we witnessed some horrific living conditions and tragic circumstances, but we were never shaken to the point of despair. If anything, our resolve to become involved was strengthened even more.
It is odd, but there is a paradox that exists within the confines of poverty and suffering that has a beauty hard to recognize in wealth. The truth is that when people are stripped of external trappings, there is a greater potential for faith, whereby faith ultimately gives birth to joy.
Don't misunderstand, we are not suggesting that third-world living conditions are more virtuous than what is available to us in the West. However, there is a striking difference between cultures of plenty as opposed to those of want. By default when you take away the elements of wealth, people are forced to be more reliant on one another.
Additionally, in poverty there is no veil sufficient to mask the longing to love and to be loved. On the other hand, it does seem that we unwittingly rely on wealth to project a sense of security and success that underneath it all never does satisfy.
What Yvonne and I see that is common to all man is the desire to be loved and respected. It doesn’t seem to us that any amount of money or accomplishments can supplant the two. After all, what greater reward is there as a parent than to have our children thrive to be in relationship with us, or as a spouse to be in agreement and harmony with our husband or wife?
And if that is good for our families, then why not desire the same for our neighbors and countries around the world?
Upon arrival back in the States last week a friend of ours said this, “It must be really hard to live in such poverty.” My immediate thought was, “Living in wealth is actually much harder.”
Yvonne puts it this way, “One way is simple and the other is complicated.”
Madagascar afforded us the opportunity to hone a type of simple contentment that goes well beyond anything we were ever able to purchase back in the USA. Now that we are back we intend to export that asset and spread it around our hometown.
Yvonne and I continue to be mission oriented. We have a vision for Madagascar that has brought us back to South Carolina. We are ready and expectant. We are eager to re-establish our real estate careers with the purpose to do more; not for us, but for our loved ones half a world away. If God so wills, then perhaps for an entire nation.
Yes, we have big dreams, but the Word says, “With God all things are possible.”
These are exciting times. We continually look to be in His will and pray that all we put our hand to will prosper according to His kingdom.